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Disconnected

Many people were suffering from withdrawal from their social media platform of choice when Facebook, Instagram, Messenger and WhatsApp all went down for a few hours yesterday. However what has long been pitched as a way to connect with other people turned into a poor excuse pretty quickly.

One of the silver linings of the pandemic has been the closer relationships I have developed with my family. Yes we have all been connected with each other on Facebook for years but since last March when my older brother had Covid and then my younger brother had a heart attack, I have resorted to the tried and true method of touching base as we now talk with each other on the phone ever week and my 1st cousins too.

I have also applied this to my business. Yes I am connected with quite a few of my referral sources on Facebook and the other social media platforms. However I applied the same rule that I use to connect with family to my business and I set aside an hour a day to call and touch base with my referral partners and clients. As a result I have developed some wonderful relationships that would never have happened if one just relied on social media as a way to connect with people.

Today I am thankful that I don’t rely on social medial for the most important relationships in my life, that hearing someone’s voice is 10 thousand times better than getting a like on your recent post and one of the best things I have done recently is cutting down my social medial to 3 blocks of 2 minutes a day.

“Deep human connection is… the purpose and the result of a meaningful life- and it will inspire the most amazing acts of love, generosity and humanity.” Melinda Gates

I look forward to hearing from you in regard to your mortgage needs.

Patrick

p.s- You can click on this link to start the process whenever you are ready. Schedule your meeting with me here.

p.s.s- I should tell you that I am licensed in Nova Scotia, Ontario(M18001555) & in British Columbia(BCFSA #504098).

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How good is your network?

I have been dabbling at the social networking thing for the last few months. I am on Twitter, facebook, friendfeed, Stumbleupon and Linkedin. I used them all for different reason’s. One of the one’s that I really enjoy lately is Linkedin. Someone once described it as the “Facebook for people who have jobs”. It is a great social networking tool, and recently I have had the honor in connecting with Steven Burda, a Russian immigrant to the United States who is one of the most connected people on Linkedin with over 40,000 direct connections. 

Steven made some time to talk with me last night and I wanted to share some of that with you.

Pat Sawler: How have you been able to build such a large network?

Steven Burda: Well I started just over 3 1/2 years ago, and I just focused on building it one person at a time. I never set out to do it just to have a large network. I did it to help people and ended up with a large network as a result.

PS: How do you help people in your network?

SB: I don’t have all the answers, but I know that I can answer most any question with the expertise from those in my network. People come to me needing XY or Z and I find an expert in my network who specializes in XY or Z and introduce them. It’s as simple as that.

PS: What benefit’s have you personally gained from having a large network? 

SB: I want start by saying that I do not do this for financial gain. I have a very good position with great benefits at a great company and am very happy. I honestly enjoy helping people. I have been offered jobs, in almost every industry. I have had people send me thank you cards for helping them. Once someone even offered to send me boxes of cereal from his factory. It is really a blessing to have a large network. I know if I wanted to, I could always find friends in any city that I travel to, and there is something comforting about that. 

Thank you very much for taking the time to speak with me. I am honored to be part of your network. I know if I really am stuck with any problem, with a few clicks on your keyboard you will probably find me the answer. Since you are a new Dad, the only advice I could give to you as a father of 3 is to enjoy every moment, have burping towels and lots of wipes!

You see having a great network is more than knowing who you can call at 3am. It is also knowing who you can approach to find the answers. I am open to helping you, if I don’t know the answer, I most likely know people who do.

Cheers,

Pat

p.s- You can find me on Twitter,Linkedin, Facebookand friendfeed.
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