And ask better questions. Do this if you find yourself experiencing less than optimal results. Focusing on why things are the way they are if they are not what you want will not help you.

If you are struggling financially, you don’t ask yourself why am I broke. Instead ask yourself how can I learn to save and manage my money better.

If you are overweight, you don’t ask yourself why am I fat and out of shape. Instead ask yourself what activities did I used to enjoy that I am not doing now and how can I make time for them.

If you are over 40 and still renting, you don’t ask yourself how you got there. Instead ask yourself what can you do to change this and save for a down payment for your own place.

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