Parenting

Your life changes drastically in so many ways after you have kids. We started with two in 2004. My wife had twins that were 11 weeks early and we spent the first 8 weeks in NICU for one and 12 weeks for the other. Thankfully they are now healthy 16 almost 17 year olds. Having kids teach you that you can survive on less than 4 hours sleep, how to change diapers half awake and that these little people do not care if you can’t sing well. Although my wife has a great singing voice.

My girls adapted well to a schedule of every four hours and slept pretty well when it wasn’t the scheduled time to get up. There were the odd times when they were older (3 or 4) and dropped their stuffies and cried blue bloody murder but other than that they were good. My son who was born in 2006 didn’t like a schedule and was not fond of sleeping till he was almost 7. So the past few years were practically bliss as the kids are old enough to sleep till 10 or 11am in the summer and put them selves to bed when my wife goes to bed.

Last night as one of my teenage girls was up watching whatever on Netflix at 1:30am she let out a scream like someone was attacking her or her sister said something that disagreed with her. I ran to her room to discover that she saw a spider and was trying to kill it unsuccessfully with her skateboard. After the spider was dispatched she was finely able to relax and go to bed. I would love to hear some of your parenting stories.

Today I am thankful for a wife who is a light sleeper to tell me to get up to tend to the emergency, that it was not a rodent as we would of had company in our bed and that at 11am she is still asleep.

What it’s like to be a parent: It’s one of the hardest things you’ll ever do but in exchange it teaches you the meaning of unconditional love.” Nicholas Sparks

I look forward to hearing from you in regard to your mortgage needs.

Patrick

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