Judgement

We could all use a little less judgement in our world. Not everything needs a label to define it, as sometimes those labels bring a negative connotation. Those labels can then be used to discriminate against people. Stop seeing people as young, old, christian, jewish, muslim, black, white, gay, straight, tall, short, fat, skinny, liberal or conservative. Fundamentally we are all the same and we have far more similarities than we do differences.

Much the same can be applied to the major events in our lives. What happens to you should not always be defined as good or bad, this creates massive mood swings that will go with that judgement. Events are just events, and you will get through them much better when you start to see them that way. Life is not what happens to you but how you react to it.

Not everyone has the same credit score, the same employment or down payment. This is why we have many different mortgage options for people. So judging your rate and approval or lack there of with your friends or neighbours is a recipe for disaster. Let’s work together to find options that fit your particular situation.

“It’s all about communication and a dialogue between individuals – get rid of the labels, get rid of the shame, get rid of the stigmas and just be…” Matt Bomer

I look forward to hearing from you in regard to your mortgage needs.

Patrick

p.s- You can click on this link to start the process whenever you are ready. Schedule your meeting with me here.

p.s.s- I should tell you that I am licensed in Nova Scotia, Ontario(M18001555) & in British Columbia(BCFSA #504098).

p.s.s.s You can download my new mortgage app here