Third option

Sometimes when people are going through a tragic or life changing event it has often been thought they would get through it either with no change to their lives or making it much much worse. As a result you could see people be unfazed by what just happened and carry on with their ever day lives but you could also see people become paralyzed with fear, develop PTSD and becoming unable to function properly.

These could be responses to major life altering health events like having a heart attack, stroke or being diagnosed with cancer. There could also be major fearful events like being in a war zone battle, being the victim of an assault or from a financial perspective suddenly and unexpectedly losing your stable employment or going bankrupt.

However there is a third option. The often talked about “what does not kill you makes you stronger” approach. We have all heard those stories where people have taken that once stressful event and used it as a catalyst to radically improve their lives. David Hogg was a student in Parkland Florida when 17 of his fellow classmates were killed and used that event to now speak out against gun violence. Terry Fox lost a leg to cancer and didn’t sit at home and mope but instead created a Cancer fundraiser and ran across Canada. I also personally know someone who went bankrupt a few years ago and did not let this ruin him and is now tops in his field in Canada now making over 1M a year.

The trick is to not view the event as a permeant life altering failure but as a learning or growth opportunity. Year after year people radically change their lives after a heart attack, stroke, divorce or bankruptcy. If it does not kill you, it has the potential to make you stronger but only if you can see that possibility.

Today I am thankful for an early morning run to improve the mood, my daughters home made cake and new people I’ve met this week.

I look forward to hearing from you in regard to your mortgage needs.

Patrick

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p.s.s- I should tell you that I am licensed in Nova Scotia Brokerage (2021-3000179) Broker (2021-3000180), Ontario(M18001555) & in British Columbia(BCFSA #504098).

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