Self Talk

The starting point of any achievement is actually believing that you can do it. This is actually more important that brainstorming your goals or taking massive action. Doing those things yet still doubting your self is not going to get you very far. Once you believe it is possible your chances of success increases exponentially.

Without a doubt we are always our own worst critic. So if you can’t believe in yourself how do expect anyone else to believe in you. Change how you talk with yourself, and what was once problems now become opportunities.

Here are a few examples and how to turn them around:

Negative: Positive:

I have never done it before It’s a chance to learn something new

I don’t know how to do it I can learn it

It’s too complicated I can figure it out

I will mess it up I have overcome tougher challenges

Other people can do it better I look for the bright side of things

Someone else should do it I deserve to win, I am always improving

I don’t have the time/resources/experience I am resourceful/ Others can help me

It won’t work I will come up with an answer

I have to do it I choose to do it

I tried and failed before I enjoy adapting and growing with change

I am not good enough I trust myself to succeed

I am not good at this I can do this

I give up I will use a different strategy 

I can’t make this better I can always improve

This is too hard It may take some time but I can do it

I made a mistake Mistakes help me learn

I am not smart enough I will learn how to do this

“Whether you think you can or your can’t, either way you are right.” Henry Ford

I look forward to hearing from you in regard to your mortgage needs.

Patrick

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p.s.s- I should tell you that I am licensed in Nova Scotia, Ontario(M18001555) & in British Columbia(BCFSA #504098).

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